Celebrating Inchstones: First day of school

Tuesday, October 19, 2010

First day of school

Asa's first day of school was today. Now I'll admit that I was nervous when we first started talking about school but I was excited today!
We've been in the class twice and Asa has just made himself at home so I assumed today would be the same! It wasn't!!!

Asa started getting fussy and clingy and just not himself about an hour before he had to be at school. Since I wasn't able to cater to him, he got mad and mad got him sick!! By the time we met the teacher I had him hooked to a bag draining and he was sweaty, clingy and sleepy! Not the best intro!

Asa spent the first hour gagging, clingy, whiney and tired. Once he shook the yuck though he was laughing and playing!! That is when I slipped away!

He was happy and playing when I got back. I didn't take any pics cause well, I just didn't. Maybe tomorrow!

I'm excited for tomorrow! I'm certain it'll go better! And my concern from today isn't for Asa but for the poor teachers!!! I know they can handle him and I love the room and the fact that there are only 2 kids in there. But it is like when your kid poops for the babysitter! I don't like the fact that they had to baby him. I wish he was feeling his best and could just play! I'm sure I'll get over that though cause he has a lot of bad days. He can't stay home for them all! He is just a more complicated kid. That is why he is in this wonderful class
though!

So we'll press on tomorrow!

2 comments:

gg said...: Bricen has blossomed since he started school last year and I'm sure Asa will do the same. I think it's harder on us then them!!!
Goodness, they're both growing up too fast!!; October 20, 2010 at 6:30 PM
Heidi said...: Awww, praying tomorrow is a better day...FOR YOU BOTH! I know things will go smoother once he gets down the routine, HUGS
Heidi & Jack.; October 21, 2010 at 4:10 AM

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Asa's story

Asa is the 4th and youngest in this family. We thought he'd come into this world and our lives would flow right along as it had the other 3 times we brought babies into this world.

We were wrong! After a normal pregnancy and delivery, Asa had to be sent to the NICU because he wasn't sucking, blood sugar dropping, floppy muscles, exaggerated startle reflex and jaundice.

He stayed 5 days were he learned to suck and eat enough to come home. He began nursing well but would scream in pain 30 minutes after each feeding. He had so much mucus and drooled so much. He had a terrible rash on his face. He wasn't making eye contact and was not hitting any milestones.

I kept taking him to the pediatrician but got nowhere until his 2 month checkup when he had only gained one pound since birth. That earned him an appt with a pediatric GI and a change to Neocate formula. Odd gasping spells and eye rolling got him into a pediatric neurologist before the GI appt. The neurologist (he was actually the head of the pediatric neurology dept) personally walked us over to the GI clinic and sat us in an exam room. That kinda makes you worry! That is when we really got the ball rolling. Asa was 3 months old.

At 4 months he was admitted to Vanderbilt Children's Hospital. He stayed 8 days and had a NG tube inserted so we could feed him directly into his stomach. He kept this for 2 months. Also during this time he had an EEG, CT scan, MRI, upper GI endoscopy with biopsy, flex sig, numerous blood tests, a genetics consult, and an ophthalmology consult and many other pokes and prods! So began our relationship with specialist!!

After 2 months on the NG tube, we removed it and tried to get Asa to eat enough to gain weight. He did OK for a little while but by 9 months old, he was fighting each feeding and not gaining weight despite being on Neocate formula at 30cal/oz. The decision was made to have a G-tube put in. The G-tube is a feeding tube that is inserted directly into Asa's belly. He can eat orally but won't so he gets feed into his belly.

Since he was going to have to be sedated for the surgery, it was agreed he should have a muscle biopsy at the same time. By 9 months he had finally began making eye contact. He smiled some but not very social. He was still very hypotonic (floppy) and didn't even have head control. Something was obviously going on with his muscles. All of his brain scans had been normal.

In Nov. 2008, when Asa was 13 months old, we found out the results of the muscle biopsy. Yes, it took 3+ months to get all of the results! He was diagnosed with Mitochondrial Myopathy. He is deficient in Complex IV for all of you medical junkies out there.

What this means is that his cells can't make enough energy to fuel his body....specifically for him, his muscles and GI system, that we know of. If his body has to burn energy to fight off infection, or a stress, then he looses energy in another system. Mito is a progressive disease with no treatment or cure. We try to keep him as healthy and happy as possible. We use the feeding tube to keep him feed so he doesn't have to struggle there. He takes numerous supplements and vitamins in the hope that they will keep him cells healthier. We check his eyes, hearing, heart, kidneys, liver, brain and lots of blood work yearly. Mito can affect any system so it is important to have baseline and watch for changes. He has a GI, neuro, geneticist, optometrist, ophthalmologist, cardiologist, developmental ped, regular ped and a mito specialist.

He gets OT, PT, speech/feeding and a home teacher weekly. He has some sensory issues with touch, sound, taste and texture. This plays into almost all areas of our lives! He is still very hypotonic but gained head control at just over a year (right after we started supplements!). He learned to sit when placed in a sitting position at 18 months. He still can't get into sitting alone. He learned to bottom scoot at just over 2. He does not crawl or walk.

He knows the signs for "moma", "daddy", "more" and "all done". He can show them when prompted but we are still waiting for him to initiate. He waves "bye-bye" and points all the time now. He loves to take a bath and water in general. He has a contagious laugh and can flash the most flirty grin ever!

We learned, with Asa, not take the small things for granted. Each smile, sound, word, bite or even trouble!! You just never know when they might not be so easy to come by or even if you'll have them at all!