Celebrating Inchstones: January 2010

Sunday, January 31, 2010

First sledding trip

Asa went sledding today!

I strapped him to me with the Snugglie and we walked to my moms! Boy that was tough. The snow was hard enough but strap a 26lbs. kid on the front of you and it was harder. His toboggan was all in my face. I had to hold onto Anna a few times. It was so funny! Asa loved it thought. It is funny because we tried the front carrier many times when Asa was small but it didn't work. Now at 2 years old, he can finally ride in it!!

I don't think I could make it back so Daddy pulled us on the sled behind the 4 wheeler. Asa doesn't like the 4 wheeler, in fact he hated it for a loooong time. He did whimper a few times but mostly he liked it. He even laughed when we went over a few little bumps!!

While we were at Moma's I ran the pump for Asa's lunch. He was in such a good mood though that I tried feeding him some applesauce. He ate it up! Then he wanted more. I found some Nutella and added it to a few more bites. He ate those bites too and the Nutella is loaded with calories! I'm gonna buy him some when we go the grocery store next. Judging by the snow it might be Wed or Thurs. though!!!

Tomorrow is a snow day and I'm hoping Asa sleeps past 6am! He woke up so early the last 3 mornings!!! On the mornings we can sleep in, Asa is up......figures!

Saturday, January 30, 2010

Frist post!

After getting pretty frustrated with the other site, I thought I'd try this out! I'm a little nervous. A "real" blog!!! For a while I'll do both blogs but if it goes well, I'll just start posting here. So if you've kept up with the Caring Bridge, then you are up to date already!!

Asa shredding toilet paper!!! So many inchstones!

We had another good day in the snow! You really should see us, we are a sight! Since we don't get snow often, we don't have much gear! When it does snow, we pull out the box of winter wear and start trying it all on. Gracie wears the coat that Anna had when she was little. We have lots of coveralls and snow pants (bought on clearance) but you aren't guaranteed that it'll fit perfectly! We are red-neck snow bunnies!! And we snow ski with water skis and dumpster lids and car hoods!!! And that is my confession for the day!!!! But we always have a blast!!!

Asa is fully bottom scooting!! Tonight he scooted about 20 feet, from in front of the TV into the kitchen! He has opened the drawer under the stove and played in my pans. He pulled out tons of plastic food storage containers and has them everywhere. He opened the cabinet under the sink where the cleaning products are. He also shredded a roll of toilet paper!!! It may finally be time to baby-proof! He is slow as molasses though so I think we could stop him but we don't want to at the moment!! I do have to roll the TP back up and use it, can't waste that Barry informed me!!!

He also ate 4 bites of potted meat today. Then he had diarrhea. He wasn't too thrilled with it either but it has a good texture to start with and strong flavors which he usually goes for. Not bad for a first try. I'll probably try more.

Ha, I just took the TP roll away and he went back to the package to try to get another out!!! Little stinker!! I love it!!!

Asa's story

Asa is the 4th and youngest in this family. We thought he'd come into this world and our lives would flow right along as it had the other 3 times we brought babies into this world.

We were wrong! After a normal pregnancy and delivery, Asa had to be sent to the NICU because he wasn't sucking, blood sugar dropping, floppy muscles, exaggerated startle reflex and jaundice.

He stayed 5 days were he learned to suck and eat enough to come home. He began nursing well but would scream in pain 30 minutes after each feeding. He had so much mucus and drooled so much. He had a terrible rash on his face. He wasn't making eye contact and was not hitting any milestones.

I kept taking him to the pediatrician but got nowhere until his 2 month checkup when he had only gained one pound since birth. That earned him an appt with a pediatric GI and a change to Neocate formula. Odd gasping spells and eye rolling got him into a pediatric neurologist before the GI appt. The neurologist (he was actually the head of the pediatric neurology dept) personally walked us over to the GI clinic and sat us in an exam room. That kinda makes you worry! That is when we really got the ball rolling. Asa was 3 months old.

At 4 months he was admitted to Vanderbilt Children's Hospital. He stayed 8 days and had a NG tube inserted so we could feed him directly into his stomach. He kept this for 2 months. Also during this time he had an EEG, CT scan, MRI, upper GI endoscopy with biopsy, flex sig, numerous blood tests, a genetics consult, and an ophthalmology consult and many other pokes and prods! So began our relationship with specialist!!

After 2 months on the NG tube, we removed it and tried to get Asa to eat enough to gain weight. He did OK for a little while but by 9 months old, he was fighting each feeding and not gaining weight despite being on Neocate formula at 30cal/oz. The decision was made to have a G-tube put in. The G-tube is a feeding tube that is inserted directly into Asa's belly. He can eat orally but won't so he gets feed into his belly.

Since he was going to have to be sedated for the surgery, it was agreed he should have a muscle biopsy at the same time. By 9 months he had finally began making eye contact. He smiled some but not very social. He was still very hypotonic (floppy) and didn't even have head control. Something was obviously going on with his muscles. All of his brain scans had been normal.

In Nov. 2008, when Asa was 13 months old, we found out the results of the muscle biopsy. Yes, it took 3+ months to get all of the results! He was diagnosed with Mitochondrial Myopathy. He is deficient in Complex IV for all of you medical junkies out there.

What this means is that his cells can't make enough energy to fuel his body....specifically for him, his muscles and GI system, that we know of. If his body has to burn energy to fight off infection, or a stress, then he looses energy in another system. Mito is a progressive disease with no treatment or cure. We try to keep him as healthy and happy as possible. We use the feeding tube to keep him feed so he doesn't have to struggle there. He takes numerous supplements and vitamins in the hope that they will keep him cells healthier. We check his eyes, hearing, heart, kidneys, liver, brain and lots of blood work yearly. Mito can affect any system so it is important to have baseline and watch for changes. He has a GI, neuro, geneticist, optometrist, ophthalmologist, cardiologist, developmental ped, regular ped and a mito specialist.

He gets OT, PT, speech/feeding and a home teacher weekly. He has some sensory issues with touch, sound, taste and texture. This plays into almost all areas of our lives! He is still very hypotonic but gained head control at just over a year (right after we started supplements!). He learned to sit when placed in a sitting position at 18 months. He still can't get into sitting alone. He learned to bottom scoot at just over 2. He does not crawl or walk.

He knows the signs for "moma", "daddy", "more" and "all done". He can show them when prompted but we are still waiting for him to initiate. He waves "bye-bye" and points all the time now. He loves to take a bath and water in general. He has a contagious laugh and can flash the most flirty grin ever!

We learned, with Asa, not take the small things for granted. Each smile, sound, word, bite or even trouble!! You just never know when they might not be so easy to come by or even if you'll have them at all!